How to Feel Prosperous

Posted on Sunday, August 19th, 2012 by

 
There are 7 strategies for obtaining what you want in life, and enjoying it passionately!

So many of us, these days, lead busy lifestyles. As society grows exponentially more complex, so do our responsibilities. The only thing that stays the same are the hours in a day.

While many of us might truly be interested in developing new strategies for self-improvement and personal growth, we often feel so time-constrained that we don’t believe we have an hour to sit down to read a new book or take a new workshop.

With that in mind, I’ve written this post for all of you super-busy folks. I’ve also included a link with each step that points to more specific, helpful hints.

how to feel prosperous

Success Strategies for an Abundant Life

Resist the temptation to “complicate” success. Stay focused, and keep it simple, with these 7 methods for creating lasting success and prosperity.

Strategy #1: See Time Differently

Become accurately and tenaciously aware of how you actually spend your day.

Strategy #2: Develop a System

With that increased awareness, determine where you can habituate, either your revenue-producing activities, or, in some cases, your “future business activities” (providing value to others with whom you’re not in a current business transaction).

“…understand that relationship-building is not
a temporary campaign, it’s a lifestyle choice”

Strategy #3: Reframe Your Endeavor as Noble

It’s startling, but if we’re being brutally honest, that fact is that, for many people, their physical and emotional health gradually deteriorates as they earn more money. They figure they can get healthy one day once they reach “a particular point,” then they’ll get themselves into shape and starting paying attention to deepening the relationships in their lives. But, of course, the only moment we really have for certain, is now.

Hopefully, you desire the healthy kind of success. Choose to have faith that your healthier habits will enrich your life if you are consistent and if you persevere. Understand that relationship-building is not a temporary campaign, it’s a lifestyle choice.

The key word in these 3 steps so far is habituate.

As you go about your usual routine, I suggest watching yourself with a third eye: witness yourself objectively as you go from task to task, and see if you can recognize patterns and habits.

 

“…you’re going to want to have
healthy ways to metabolize some
of life’s natural anxiety”

Strategy #4: Fantasize Vividly

Visualize what you want perfectly in your mind — close your eyes, breathe, and see yourself having what you want, so clearly and deeply that you can actually feel it.

 

Strategy #5: Modify Your Language

Attract what you want into your life by using positive vibrations and feelings, choosing to observe the best of your life, and eliminating the words “don’t,” “not,” and “no” from your habitual language.

Strategy #6: Look Closely at Your Day, Again

Remember in Strategy #1 when you tried to see your day through a different lens? Now, do it again, only this time, be more picky. Really look at the evidence of where your time is going. Move into action, by looking consciously at how you spend your time each day, and establish systems of productivity. This website is loaded with many tips on getting the most bang from your average day, so I invite you to explore a bit, until you find systems that work uniquely well for you.

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Strategy #7: Find Outlets!

As you’re visualizing, feeling, attracting, and improving, you’re going to want to have healthy ways to metabolize some of life’s natural anxiety.

Many people who are diligent at the first steps, will stumble when they get to this seventh step. For whatever reason, we humans are not always proactive in finding habitual ways of releasing tension from our minds and bodies. In fact, if we look back closely at the mistakes we’ve made in your lives until this point, we’ll see that we made them when we were feeling anxious or “off-center.”

I encourage you to experiment with these seven strategies!


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11 Responses to How to Feel Prosperous

  1. Dane Findley says:

    If I had one piece of advice to give a new adult starting out on her own, it would probably be:

    “be tenacious and brave in looking for patterns in your own life — in your choices, in your habits, in everything.” Look for patterns!

  2. Alison says:

    Love step #3! Building relationships is a lifestyle choice, not a campaign, and it can enrich your life!

  3. Peter Anthony says:

    Make a blueprint. What you think about you create.

    Always think out of the box. Be unique! Be kind. Offer something your competition has overlooked.

    Follow up. Follow up. Follow up.

    Plant a seedling in a small container. Water it. Give it plenty of sunshine. Till the soil.. watch it grow…. pretend this is your career…once you see a leaf crusting the top of the soil re-evaluate re-do re-examine and re-plant if you need to. Try it..this little plant will teach you the valuable lesson of abundance.

    • Dane Findley says:

      Peter, I love the gardening metaphor for helping relationships to grow and thrive. Relationships need regular tending… just like gardens!

      { twitter = @danenow }

  4. Jane Churchon says:

    My personal and professional motto: the Golden Rule (and I’m not even Christian). It inspires loyalty in my staff, and faith from my superiors.

  5. joel.nass says:

    Finding the value in what you have set before you, to accomplish on a given day, is quite near the fountainhead of a fulfilling existence.

  6. Jean P -The ShoppinQueen says:

    The best tips I can offer up are really simple:

    1. Dance with the one who brung ya- those people who helped/mentored you when you were 1st starting don’t forget them once you’ve launched

    2. Be yourself in all settings — home, work, and in social media

    3. Our time is the most precious thing any of us have, are the things you’re doing with your time worthwhile, meaningful or fun? if not, time to reevaluate.

    Thanks Dane for providing me with some food-for-thought today!

  7. magnus hellberg says:

    Just keeping giving freely, it will all come back to you.

    • Dane Findley says:

      you bet, @magnus — that’s one of the things about the internet that I enjoy: everyone sharing information, and everyone having access to it!

  8. Nick Segal says:

    I love the uplifting and beneficial tone and content of this site. Appreciate the fact that I was able to offer inspiration but the fact that you offer it daily with tips and tools to make each person that reads your site better. I’m grateful for your insights…InstantDane!

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